The Heart of the Matter 

Asghar Farhadi’s ‘A Separation’ more than sidesteps divorce-movie expectations.


Simin subsequently moves out to temporarily live with family — a development that may be the only predictable thing about this domestic drama so mountingly tense and morally spiky that it feels like a thriller. A Separation subverts divorce-movie expectations by having nearly all of its narrative flow from a different conflict for which the central split is technically obliquely responsible. Nader hires a woman, Razieh (Sareh Bayat), to act as his dad’s caretaker now that Simin isn’t around to help. After he comes home from work early one day and finds that cash is missing, his father tied to his bed (which he’s fallen off) as if he were a dog whose keeper was trying to stop it from misbehaving, and Razieh gone, he angrily forces her out of the house when she returns. Then comes some horrific news: Razieh — who was concealing her new job from her husband, Hodjat (Shahab Hosseini), and a pregnancy from Nader — has suffered a miscarriage. She and Hodjat want to press charges. Razieh could go to prison for a few years, for murder, if a judge decides his home-banishing pushing was aggressive enough to cause the baby’s death.

The sparring between A Separation’s opposing forces amasses intensity to an almost unbearable degree. One might initially gravitate more toward Simin and Nader’s side — from what Farhadi shows, Simin’s reaction to Razieh’s professional slip-up is heated but not violent in the way it’s being framed — but the movie ultimately steers its viewers to think more humanistically about emotionally rubbed-raw people only trying to protect themselves and their families. Everyone, in the context of their self-preserving day-to-day lives, is more right than wrong. 

A Separation is still conscious of the power imbalance between its litigiously dueling parties and how the upper-middle-class Nader might see the blue-collar Razieh and Hodjat as beneath him — jump to accusing Razieh of swiping money without having exhausted all possible explanations and see her temporary abandonment of his father as more of an unforgivable moral failing and not the byproduct of a legitimate emergency that he doesn’t allow her to explain.